(Closed) Help!! Not in the wedding party.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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4770 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This: In fact, I’d like to cut off all ties between her and I as I simply cannot deal with the negativity anymore.

Cut her off, why have a friend if you don’t want to be her friend?  Doesn’t make sense.  Dosn’t make sense why you accepted to be in her wedding either.

Post # 4
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I would just lay it out that you’ve chosen X, Y, Z to be your wedding party and you hope she is happy for you. Just because you stood in her wedding doesn’t automatically give her a place in your wedding.

Post # 5
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1211 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Life is short. Why waste your energy being surrounded by people who make you miserable? I would start by saying the truth: I chose so and so for my bridal party. If she asks if she’s included, say no. If she asks why, tell her. There’s no need to be cruel, but if you’re truly interested in ending the friendship, no need to tiptoe around it either! 

Post # 6
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228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

if you want to cut ties with her, does this also mean that you aren’t inviting her to your wedding? 

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