Post # 1
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Newbee
hi, im getting married this november, i have 3 bridesmaids and one of them are driving me crazy, her behaviour is unreal, she is talking behind my back about me and she is saying nasty things about my fiancee, she says she hasnt, and cant remember because she was drunk, but that is no excue and 3 people have come up to me and said she was doing these things, it is at the stage where i dont want her to be a bridesmaid, i have confronted her about all of this but she denyed it all, what can i do? im really starting to dislike her and my fiancee does not want her as part of the bridal party, how do i tell her??
please help 🙂
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
This sounds really immature. Why are you friends with this person in the first place?
Post # 4
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Newbee
i am asking myself the same question, i just dont know how to tell her ”your out”,
Post # 5
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8369 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
Who told you these thing? Are they closer to you than your Bridesmaid or Best Man friend? Is there a reason that they might want to cause trouble? Are they a reputable source.
If I confronted my friend without any proof other than secondhand gossip and she denied it I would tend to believe her. Unless I 100% knew the source was reliable I would tend not to listen to gossip.
Post # 6
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Newbee
my sources are very reliable, one is my maid of honour and her husbands best friend, and i have been friends with them for years and wer pretty shocked to hear what they heard from this particiluar bm, she has caused other problems in the bast, im sick of giving her chances 🙁
Post # 8
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Bumble bee
You need to just tell her that due to hurtful rumors that are being spread you no longer want her to be a bridesmaid.
Post # 9
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Newbee
ya ill be telling her when i see her next
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