(Closed) Help please with my ring

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2006

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glambridesummer:  Honestly, with a showpiece stunner like that I’d forgo the band and just rock it by itself!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

You can use your ering for the ceremony? Or some other bees wear a band on the right hand, if you really want a wedding band 🙂

 

Your ring is unreal, by the way. Soo pretty!

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper

I would stick with a a really thin, plain white gold or platinum band that would almost disappear and not take away from your extraordinary ring.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Yeah, don’t take away from that stunner with a band. It wouldn’t look right. You can get a plain band for the ring exchange and wear your engagement ring on your right hand or you could just use the one ring. Whatever suits you best!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

A ring like that doesn’t need a wedding band.  The bands are built in for you.  You’re all set!  Ladies usually take their ering off for the ceremony anyway to leave the finger available for the w-band but I’ve always found that to be a low priority tradition.   Honestly, I  don’t like letting silly tradition details get in my way.  My life, my wedding,  my finger, etc.!  Your Fiance can put that sparkly beauty on your finger fot your vows.  So much better than a boring band.  And why do we have a tradition that the ering plays no role in the wedding yet it’s the ring we put the most focus on for the rest of our lives?!  Think how much more that beauty will mean to you both to use it for your vows.  I think it would be awesome! 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

Good Lawd woman!!!!!!!!  Is that a ring or a monument?  That sucker is ginormous!!!!!  Absolutely stunning!

i see no need for a band unless you are trying to break your fingers from the added weight lol. All kidding aside that kind of ring needs zero support from a band. All the band can do at that point is take away from it. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - City Hall!

i would honestly get a plain silver thin thin band for the ceremony. and you can use it on your right hand or tuck it underneath. 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

I never got a band for my first marriage. I had a very intricate/detailed ering and nothing would lay flush with it.  I had the ring bearer walk down with the e-ring.  In the 15 odd years of marriage I never felt like I was missing anything.  Nobody ever mistook me for being engaged instead of married.  I loved my ring just the way it was.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2016 - Garden

I agree with the others, no band needed! But for the ceremony you can use a small substitute plain wedding band and use that for now, then later on that can be placed as your RHR 🙂 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

No need for a band. Use that one at the ceremony. 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2016 - Garden

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glambridesummer:  pray that all goes well for you both! Happy planning!

Post # 15
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Helper bee

Holy wow, that’s beautiful!

I recently was at Costco and stood in line behind a woman who had a ring similar to yours — she had a skinny skinny white metal band as her wedding band. It was the perfect complement. She was able to have the symbolism of a wedding band but it was so minimal that it didn’t take away from her gorgeous, blingy ring.

If I were you that’s what I would do.

But yeah, your ring is gorgeous! Congratulations!

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