- Cole B
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
When my Fiance & I got engaged in December I knew I would ask my sister(who is my MOH) and best friend (we’ll call her “B,” who I’ve been friends with since college) to be my two BMs. I didn’t have many other girl friends and thought it was best to keep the number small.
In the last month I have met and become very close to a girl (We’ll call her “M”) who I know will become one of if not my best friend. I keep thinking that by our wedding (October) I will be incredibly close to this girl and will wish that she will be standing with me on my wedding day.
If I ask her it will make our numbers uneven, which was a tough situation in the beginning as my Fiance had more people he could add but didn’t because I didn’t. I am worried that “B” will have hurt feelings because it will seem like I am rubbing my new friendship in her face, our relationship isn’t as close as we used to be and we see each other 1-2 times a month whereas I see “M” 4-5 times a week. I am also worried that it is in bad taste to add someone so late in the game (even though we didn’t know each other in December) and that it is too late to ask her as I have already talked about many of my wedding plans with her.
Another option is to have “M” and her husband sing at our wedding as they have beautiful voices and we are growing close with her husband too, but I just can’t help think that I will be sad to have her not stand up with me.
Should I ask her or just continue as planned?