(Closed) Help! Should I invite her to my wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
183 posts
Blushing bee

I would not invite her. I have a few old friends from work that at the time I would have invited but since we have lost touch and don’t see eachother, there is no reason to invite them.

Post # 4
242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This is such a personal and tough decision, but from what you’ve said, it sounds like you two are friendly but not close friends, so I would just send pictures like she requested. It depends on how big/elaborate your wedding is, though. I would imagine a large, casual affair would allow you to include more people beyond your nearest and dearest.

For people I have worked with, I have drawn the line at not inviting them unless we have hung out multiple times outside of work, and I feel pretty comfortable with that rule. Unless you are inviting her plus guest, personally I would fine it akward to not know anyone besides the bride. You are sweet to consider inviting her, though.

Post # 5
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Don’t bother inviting her.  She clearly doesn’t expect it, and you don’t want her to feel obligated.

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