Post # 32
I’m still not really sure why you two are rushing into getting married. Your Fiance is only 19 years old, if you love him you would advise him to wait. And for the sake of themarriage, get some financial planning done before you walk down the aisle. Money is the #1 reason for divorce.
If I were you I would postpone the wedding. There is no shame in it. There are a lot of bees on here who had a long engagement and loved it! It gives you more time to get to know each other, possibly move in and plan a beautiful detailed wedding.
Post # 33
Again, awesome. I think I love this focum/website, I just found it yesterday & will be coming here often :).
I’m not in a rush to get married, he is. He says that his school friends can’t come if we have it any later & we both want to spend the rest of our lives together so “why wait”? But we will talk about post poning it this coming weekend. It has to be done. The best thing for us is if he has to live on his own for awhile, without his parents help, or I’ll feel like I married a kid & he’s young already. Since so many of you have told me waiting is best, it gives me more confidence in my decision. I wasn’t looking for you to decide for me, but your advice/ input really helps!
@kelmac: thanks so much, your email was very sweet. that was very nice of you & you didn’t even need to apologize but it is accepted :). I’ll reply to you when I can, I’m on a quick work break right now.