(Closed) HELP! Sister/MOH from hell! (kind of long, sorry!!!!!)

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 4
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

You can hit the little “edit” link under your first post for up to an hour and fix any mistakes you find. 🙂 It happens to all of us!

I would mentally count her out, but not give her a deadline, personally. Kind of like, have zero expectations from her, because it doesn’t sound like she has lived up to much yet. :/ And closer to the date, ask her again if she still hasn’t responded – if she has the dress and chooses to walk in your wedding and be in photos, great. If she declines and comes as a regular guest, great. If you leave it up to her choice though, seems to me like there will be fewer repercussions within the relationship down the line.

Post # 6
6394 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I definitely know the way you feel on this one :P. I agree completely with daydreamwanderer – she’s your sister, so you really can’t kick her out for the same reasons you asked her in the first place, lol. Since you’re having a friend be Maid/Matron of Honor as well, I would just explain the situation to her and give her all of the typical duties. Good luck and welcome to the Bee!

Post # 7
459 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I second jo.lee – just think of her as not involved and stop wedding related communication with her (either between you and her, her and Maid/Matron of Honor, her and other BM’s). 

-Good Luck!

Post # 8
1871 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I second daydream and jo.lee.

Just ignore her. She’ll be in the wedding, she’ll probably have something fresh to be pissed about that day and that will be just too bad for her. She’s not worth the energy.

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