(Closed) Help! Sleeping arrangements at hotel with boyfriend’s parents

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

You are an adult.

Make your own sleeping arrangements. You and your Boyfriend or Best Friend are perfectly capable of getting a hotel room for yourselves. If you don’t want to play by the rules of the parents, don’t depend on them to pay for the hotel room.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@crayfish: Totally agreed with this.

Even if you were married, it still isn’t up to his mother to make the arrangements for you.  Granted, since you aren’t even engaged, I could see her be a little weird about staying in the same room as your boyfriend.  My mother wouldn’t allow that kind of behavior until AFTER we were married!  Other than that, you need to make your own arrangement.

Post # 5
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2407 posts
Buzzing bee

Can’t you both make a reservation of your own? Why are his parents making the reservations?

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@crayfish: Agree with this. Why let his parents pay for 2 rooms, when you guys can just get your own, and then they can’t say anything about your sleeping arrangements if they aren’t paying for it

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@gummybears: I would get your own hotel room. Tell his parents you appreciate that they want to pay for a room for you, but you would prefer paying for your own room so you can stay together

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would get your own hotel room.  If your Boyfriend or Best Friend wants to stay with you, then he can stay in your hotel room instead of in the room with his brother.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Do you both live together? Then this might make a difference in terms of expectations. I’ll just ask Boyfriend or Best Friend to ask his mom what’s going on, since she’s the one who invited you to begin with.

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