(Closed) HELP! The closer the wedding gets…

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Busy bee

So, your Fiance sounds like he wants to wait a bit. Maybe he would like some time alone with just you. Trust me after kids come you will have very few moments alone. Why not wait just the 6 months?

Post # 5
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Busy bee

Good for both of you and best of luck!

 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Woodstock:  We’re in the same boat! My wedding was 8/4 and I went off BCP after the honeymoon. Darling Husband wanted to wait 6 months or so until we started actively trying but he isn’t being true to his word! We have not been being careful at all mostly to his insistence. Last night we went out just the two of us for drinks and at the end of the evening as we were heading home he said “lets make a baby tonight!” lol so we’ll see what happens in the next few months!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

@Woodstock:  We did not wait the six months and here we are over six months later and babyless… I think there’s no real reason to wait, unless you have some serious adjusting to do. Darling Husband and I had already been living together for 1.5 years and had everything combined before marriage. Other people have to adjust to sharing finances, combining other accounts, name changes, and living together. If you’ve already been doing that and have no disagreements, then I say why wait? Best of luck =) Congrats on your wedding!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

@Woodstock:  Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers =)

FWIW, I’m not sure how truly genetic fertility issues are, though they sure do seem to “run” in families! Literally everyone in my family has gotten pregnant accidentally, and here I am with issues… So you never know until you try 😉 pun intended! Best of luck in figuring out what to do. Maybe compromise and try at four months of marriage? Seriously, it goes by so goddamn fast. I cannot believe it’s already been half a YEAR for us (almost!)

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