(Closed) Help! Unexcited fiance….

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1839 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

It seems as if he doesn’t want to get married anymore and this worries me….

sounds more like he probably just doesnt know how to stand up to his mother. or maybe he’s just gotten overwhelmed with/isnt concerned about all the details
 

Post # 4
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7206 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@li612:  +1 

It sounds more like he is scared of disagreeing with his mom. Have you talked to him about it?

Post # 5
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2376 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I wouldn’t be worried that he’s not crazy excited.  Most guys don’t get into the planning, it’s just not their thing.  I’d be more concerned that he’s not standing up for you to his mother.  It’s not her wedding, and if she’s not paying for it, she doesn’t really get a say in it.  I’d be having a talk with him about his attitude towards his you around his mother.  What happens when she criticizes your house, your children, etc. down the road?

Post # 6
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2090 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@li612:  +1

I think you should talk to your Fiance. Maybe he just isnt so into the planning anymore but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to get married- I think it’s just a man thing. My Fiance goes through phases where he’s really into it, then he isn’t all that interested anymore. I think he knows I have it covered, likes that I’m enjoying the planning, and that’s enough for him. 

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