(Closed) Help… Wanting to purpose to my man…

posted 6 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: How should I propose?
    Different quotes : (0 votes)
    Poems : (3 votes)
    17 %
    Other... (leave your opinions) : (15 votes)
    83 %
  • Post # 3
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    @ladiibug:  Personally, I would just have a talk about it so he knows what I was thinking and then leave it up to him.  But I would be VERY clear that it should happen LOL

    Post # 4
    21 posts

    I would just make sure that it is clearly known that you are ready for marriage and leave the rest up to him unless it’s something you really want to do and something you know he won’t mind. My SO would be MORTIFIED if I asked him so please just make sure that he will be fine with it!

    And I personally wouldn’t use any quotes or poems. I find cheesy things make me uneasy so I would simply just tell him how in love I am with him and that I want to spend the rest of my life with him!

    Post # 5
    5956 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I find the most effective way of communicating anything is from the heart, however most people find that words are terribly inadequate when it comes to the more important moments in life…if you are actually going to propose, the sky is the limit!  You could literally find any way to make your feelings known, but it’s such a personal thing….lipstick on a mirror, a note, a song…a scavenger hunt…who knows? 

    What’s your fella into?  Graphic Novels?  Horror Flicks?  Sports?  I would find the thing he’s really excited and interested in and find a way to weave it into that.

    Post # 7
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I think somehwere I heard that women are only to ask a man to marry in a leap year. And this year is a leap year… so you have about 81 days to do it! LOL

    Post # 8
    779 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I would just have a marriage talk with him. Let your man propose to you! Maybe it’s old fashion, but there’s no better feeling in the world than having your SO get down on one knee and ask you to be his wife! 🙂 I think it’s such a beautiful moment that every girl deserves!

    But that’s just my opinion! You know him better than any of us.. Haha 🙂 Do what you feel is right, and with him in mind. Good luck an. Congrats on all of your happiness!

    Post # 9
    479 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I say go for it! And you could cook his favorite meal and give him the poem over dinner. My best friend asked her now Fiance to marry her and he said yes.. And then for Christmas he asked her rofl. It’s not the 1920’s, it’s nothing wrong with going for what you love and want. Good luck

    Post # 10
    1839 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I def wouldn’t do a poem or quotes b/c it’s just not my thing personally.  Have you guys talked about marriage at all?  I agree with the PP who said weave it into something he’s interested in

    Post # 12
    150 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @klingon:  This is a great point! I have no issues with women doing the proposing, but certain guys might find it emasculating. Gender roles are annoyingly deepset.

    I think a candid conversation is the best route 🙂 

    Also, if you haven’t discussed marriage at all, there is a chance he’ll say ‘no’ (if he’s not ready) or be really caught off guard and not know what to say. I don’t know any men who would propose if they weren’t sure the answer would be ‘yes’. It would take a lot of guts for anyone (man or woman) to propose ‘blindly’ so-to-speak.

    Post # 14
    2777 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    If I really wanted to do this I would say its been 6 years we have a daughter, I know I want to spend the rest of my life with you, how would you feel about getting married?

    See how he responds if he says that sounds great then say well how bout it then?  Then he can make actual plans and if he wanted to do the on one knee bit it opens it up for him to do so.  That way its a discussion and no emasculating,  and you got to basically propose.

    Fiance and I had a really serious discussion (probably our 10th discussion about getting married lol but this one was super serious) a few days later he got down on one knee with  a ring.

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