(Closed) Help! We invited too many people!

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2326 posts
Buzzing bee

if you are worries about 1 couple, 2 pax, there’s not to much to worry about or that you can do. Just hope that they say no? You aren’t able to un-invite them (if that’s even word) so I’d suggest to focus your attention on things you are looking forward to

Post # 4
8170 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

you can’t uninvite them, so hope they or others so no.

you mention that you invited too many people.  is it just this one couple?

would you be at the same number of invites if you didn’t invite this couple or other and invited your coworkers?

Post # 5
11284 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@emrowland:  you can’t uninvite them now.  if you have that many people at your wedding, you won’t even notice them there.  as for your co-workers, perhaps if you get a few “no” rsvps, you will have some space for them.  all you can do is wait and see.

Post # 6
605 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Just relax. I’ve had some guest list regrets.  You’d probably feel bad either way.  Very few of us have unlimited space and budgets so you have to make cuts somewhere.


Post # 7
12629 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can’t uninvite them, that’s incredibly rude.  So, best case is, just deal with it.  Did this one couple make you think you invited too many people, or is there another part of this story? 

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