(Closed) HELP! Wedding Invitation dilemma!

posted 5 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
4313 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You’re actually losing the money you spent on VP if you just get new invites.

I would tell them thank you, and see if there is somewhere else they would be willing to help.

Post # 4
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I would say don’t let the Bridezilla win!! Most invites end up in the trash anyway …

Post # 5
1503 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Agreed with deetroitwhat.  Keep in mind these invites will probably ultimately end up in the trash.  Don’t waste the money!

Plus, what would you do with the invites you already received?  Just trash them?  The inner tree hugging hippie in me is saying please don’t just waste them!

Post # 6
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I would just use the VP invites. No one else will notice or care (usually I fill out the RSVP and the rest of the invite goes in the trash after I write the date down). If you really want the fancy invites of your dreams, I would try and order a small amount (like 5-10) and just keep those as keepsakes (I know some people/moms like to frame wedding invites).

Post # 7
839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Agree with PPs. It’s not somewhere to waste extra money. Save that extra for other decor or items that will really have an impact on your wedding day.

Post # 8
7652 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I couldn’t spend money on invites that I already received and then order expensive ones. I’d put the money towards make other parts of your wedding even more beautiful.


Post # 9
933 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Any chance mom & sis would be willing to put the offer towards rehearsal dinner invites? I know it’s unusual for the rehearsal dinner invites to be fancier than the wedding invites, but who really cares? Only those close to you will be at teh rehearsal anyway.

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