- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I hope you could help me with this. So originally me and my fiance we’re going to have a small wedding (58 guest list), a simple ceremony and a reception at this restaurant that I found that has a private room and it’s own full bar (woohoo). Now this list was just our immediate family, i.e, parents brothers and sisters, neices, nephews and our closest friends. A stress free event for us. Also we are paying it all on our own and we are saving up for a house so don’t want to spend to much. Now my future mother in law says she has to invite her brother and sisters. Which I wouldn’t mind but we don’t have the dinero. Also how can I invite her extended family and not my moms which there 8 brothers and sisters, even more… eeekkkkk!! Love her to death but excuse my little vent. My future mother in law came up with an idea which is not to bad. She suggested that we have a ceremony at 12 with all our original 58 guest + all our aunties and uncles ( no cousins invited). And the “auntie & uncle guest list” will go to her house where we will have a lite fare.. appetizers, desserts and drinks from 1-3:30 (which she said she will pay and i am thinking that all the aunties will porb make the food). Me and my fiance would arive around 1:30 after we take our photos. Then the original “58 guest list”, will go to the restaurant which is from 6-10. NOW AFTER ALL THAT INFO I GAVE hahahaha….. these different list of ppl will get different reception invites but same ceremony info…. I am not sure how to word both invites. PLEASE HELP!!!! Also either though we are paying for everything both our prents want there names on the invite….. how do we do that hahaha… PLEASE HELP!!!!