(Closed) Help Wedding is in 10 weeks and I dont know what to do about 2 BMs

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What should I do with the 2 BMs
    Tell them they are fired : (0 votes)
    Have someone else tell them they are fired : (1 votes)
    100 %
    Just do everything myself and cut ties after the ceremony : (0 votes)
    Cut ties now and just have my MOH : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    277 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Get rid of the 2 flakes and have 1 Maid/Matron of Honor standing by your side.  1 quality friend is better than 2 “fair weather/flaky friend”. Drama eliminated, less worries for you, and more time to concentrate on yourself on your wedding day! Yay!

    Post # 4
    Member
    540 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Wow I have a similar situation and I’m kind of stuck so I’m curious to see other’s responses. I say, since you bought the dresses, take them back and dump them. I would rather stand by myself but my girls have already bought their dresses and I can’t refund them.

    Post # 5
    Member
    611 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I’d drop them, besides one isn’t really a good friend anyway so it should be easy to say they are out.  I’d return their dresses or sell them if you can’t return them.  I agree with hasel920; it is better to have one quality friend stand with than two people who could care less about your day.

    @futuremrs.taylor- I would check to see if it is possible to still return the dresses.  If that is not an option I would still ask them to step down and tell them that you will repay them for their dresses after the wedding when you have more available funds. 

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