(Closed) Help!!!! Wedding Shower Etiquette!!!!

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ummm…she must be confused. The whole point of a wedding shower is to shower the bride with gifts, thus the people invited should know where she is registered.

It is rude to put that info on the wedding invite though.

Post # 4
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Isn’t the point of a shower to “shower the bride (or couple) with gifts?” I thought it was technically the only time you were “supposed” to put the registry info on there!

Post # 5
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I agree with the others, that’s why brides are always opening gifts at their shower! It’s what it’s for. We put our registry info on the invite.

Post # 7
830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

What would you be doing at your shower if not opening gifts? She is confused/ wrong. It’s totally fine to register somewhere and put that info in the shower invite.

Post # 8
10601 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

You shouldn’t be putting the registry information on the shower invitations, whoever is hosting the shower does that.  I didn’t even see the invitations until after the shower.

Post # 10
4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Yes a shower is to shower you with gifts but it’s ALWAYS rude to ask for gifts and thus I do not think you should put the registry in the invite, the host/ Bridesmaid or Best Man should spread the word verbally.

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