Help. We're on a break

posted 9 months ago in Relationships
Post # 77
1621 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

zmommy12 :  You are more than enough. You are good enough for someone ELSE, someone who would respect you for who you are. I think you should take some time to evaluate and maybe continue to get help and make sure that you learn to love yourself first. When you love and respect yourself, you wouldn’t let someone like this guy into your life, because he doesn’t deserve you.

Post # 78
6834 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2050

zmommy12 :  Your insecurities were right though. They didn’t get in the way, his douchebaggery got in the way. You don’t seem to understand this. You were RIGHT to be insecure. He was a dick and you picked up on that, that is a GOOD thing. Please tell me you understand this because it does not seem like you understand this. Please say this out loud: “He is a lying cheating creep and I deserve better. My instincts were right and I deserve better.”

Post # 79
6571 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park

Stop that negative ass thinking. This guy is literally a giant turd. He’s no prize, he’s nothing you should aspire to be with. He’s garbage.

You need to speak to a professional and figure out why you are willing to settle down with the personification of human waste and then blame yourself because this turd nugget cheated on you (as he has done to likely EVERY woman he’s ever been with)

RESPECT YOURSELF. Stop being a victim and take control of your own life! 

Post # 80
2061 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!!! He is the one that doesn’t deserve you. You are a kind, amazing, child gifting woman! 

You are worthy of love. 

Post # 81
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Holy Toledo, I think we are all wasting our time on this one. No matter how much we all tell her she deserves better and he’s a creep, she will post another comment making excuses for him. Why on earth do you say/think “I’m not enough for him” when it’s so blatantly obvious that he’s an a$$hole who lies and cheats?!? Would you want your future daughter dating a guy like that? He’s an old perv and all he wants is to sleep around. He does not want commitment!! Leave him and stop feeling sorry for yourself! You deserve better. Move on, Hang out with friends, join a club or take a class…anything to get him out of your life! 

Post # 83
5422 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

zmommy12 :  Take this last paragraph, print it out, and bring it to a therapist. There is SO much wrong with the way you talk about yourself! 

Post # 84
669 posts
Busy bee

He sounds like a creepy man-child and you’re better off without him. I know it hurts now but one day you will laugh when you think back to this. xo

Post # 85
425 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry bee. 🙁 

i agree with the other ladies. There was definitely something weird going on with him and this chick. I would never tolerate that. I know that no matter what it still hurts. I’m sorry. 

Post # 86
572 posts
Busy bee

If I were you, I would print out this thread so that when you are starting to heal and to really respect yourself, you can look back at this and be thankful you got out early.

This is not a good relationship for you. He is not a great guy. You will find someone better.

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