- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Ok this is kinda complicated so ill try to explain it. This girl and i have been friends on and off for a long time but she goes through these phases where she wont talk to me. Well she told be that I was a bridesmaid and we all went dress shopping/ to super bride sunday in Jan. and they found dresses and we were having a good time till i got sick and had to leave early… well since then she has not said any thing and the wedding is in 4 months and im not sure if I am still a bm or if I should just assume since she has not told me any thing about this wedding since i got sick that I am no longer a bm. How should I ask with out sounding tacky? Honestly I dont wanna be in this Circus of a wedding, but i dont want to “Ruin” her wedding by not showing up. then again I can’t really show up since i dont even know what time the ceremony is.