(Closed) Help!!! What would you do???

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What would you do:
    Kick Bridesmaid Q out and have even 3 and 3 bridal party and waste her dress? : (16 votes)
    55 %
    Kick Bridesmaid Q out and have N replace her for 4 and 3 again? : (4 votes)
    14 %
    Keep bridesmaid Q and not asking bridesmaid N? : (5 votes)
    17 %
    Keep bridesmaid Q and also ask bridesmaid N for 5 and 3? : (4 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 16
    Member
    758 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    MissGatitas:  Ya…so that’s called not taking any responsibility for your actions.  It’s incredibly immature.  Go ahead and give her your address and then don’t hold your breath for the dress to arrive in the mail…

    Sorry – I’m coming off really negatively.  I just have little to no tolerance for flaky people, especially for events as important as a wedding.  It’s disrespectful and rude to be a no-show for a wedding in general, but as a bridesmaid? Give me a break…

    Post # 18
    Member
    97 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    MissGatitas:  Did you end up keeping her? I am having a bridesmaid issue also! I was wondering if you decided to drop her? Personally, your situation sounds much worse than mine! My bridesmaid is impossible to get a hold of, yet answers for everyone else. Complained about the bridesmaid dress color, then kept b.s.ing on ordering the dress and it sold out in my sister’s size, so we had to spend hours upon hours searching to find a similar dress in that price range, found one, but it was a halter instead of strapless, then she complains to her brother (my FI) about having to wear a halter dress (that she wouldn’t even have to WEAR if she wouldn’t have been b.s.ing! My sister offered to pay for their original dresses and she wouldn’t even take the time to get her size. I asked 5 times in a month, kept saying tomorrow, tomorrow…. Finally we just ordered the new dress, and still complaints. My Fiance had enough. Told her she was wearing it or she wasn’t going to be in the wedding, lol. She said, I guess I’ll have to wear it then… BUT now I can’t even get a response for her to come try the dress on. Plus she didn’t show for my baby shower a couple years ago, wondering if she is also going to flake on me, maybe not for the wedding day, but everything prior…. :/ 

    Post # 19
    Member
    935 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    weatherbug:  “Honestly, her just saying “what if I’m sick and can’t come” shows me that she’s already thinking of excuses to not show!”

    Yep – that’s exactly what she’s doing.   Personally – I wouldn’t drop her.  I wouldn’t give her any ammo or satisfaction.  Let her no show to your wedding (looks like there’s about a 70% chance of that) and then RSVP no to all of her baby shit that she’ll no doubt expect you to go to.  I can’t stand people that can’t properly grow a spine and no show like that.  

    Post # 21
    Member
    684 posts
    Busy bee

    She sounds like a ridiculous woman ! Good for you.

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