(Closed) Help with brother-in-laws ex!

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Should I invite her to the wedding???
    NO : (7 votes)
    58 %
    YES : (2 votes)
    17 %
    Other... : (3 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
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    714 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Hmmm. This is kind of tricky.  I would wait and see how she responds to shower invite.  If she says no you are off the hook for wedding invite.  If she says yes and comes to shower I think you should talk to fbil and see how he feels about her being at the wedding (was it a bad break up?).  If she does come to shower you could later explain that you are very sorry she wont be invited to the wedding cause fbil is not comfortable with her being there.

     

    Post # 4
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    2373 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2008

    I’m guessing she’ll ignore the invite (that’s what I would do). If she replies I’d let her know gently you like her as a person, but want to stay out of her and BIL’s relationship. You think it’s best she’s not invited to the wedding.

    Post # 7
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    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    See if she shows up to the shower, then decide accordingly. If she decides to be the bigger person and attend the shower, then I think you should send her an invite. (I doubt she will attend, though.)

    Post # 8
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    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I would wait and see how she replies to the shower invite, but in the mean time talk to your Future Brother-In-Law and find out what his feelings are, will he care if she comes to the wedding? That kind of thing, it sounds like it wasn’t a bad break-up, just one that they both knew wouldn’t grow in to more and that would eventually end.

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