- 5 years ago
My FH’s mother just lost her aunt (her mother’s sister), who she was very close with. This aunt has been a comfort to Future Mother-In-Law since the lost of FMIL’s mother. The aunt died peacefully in her sleep. FH was not extremely close to her, but is still sad and has spoken with his mother who gave him the news. I am on excellent terms with Future Mother-In-Law and would like to send a condolence card. My question is, do I address it to her or to both her and her husband? Is it from just me or from me and FH? I feel like it would be weird to include FH, because the card will have to be written as “we” and will sound impersonal coming from her actual son. I’m thinking of just addressing it to Future Mother-In-Law and from just me. Her husband is not close to the aunt personally, just by marriage. Thanks bees for the help.