Post # 1
Hi ladies! I have a little dilemma. I’m having a really hard time choosing a maid of honor! Here’s the story, I have 7 girls in my wedding. All of them are so special to me and I can’t pick just one to be my maid of honor. I have 2 best friends and can’t choose between them, 2 sister in laws who I’m super close to equally and 3 cousins who I am also equally close to. I thought maybe to have my mother but 2 people told me I shouldn’t have my mom. I am now thinking of not having 1 but having them all be maids of honors instead of them being bridemaids. Is that silly?? Any other suggestions? Help!!! Thanks 😉
Post # 3
Having 7 MOH’s is too much. Honestly, I would pick your 2 best friends and have 2 MOH’s and the rest bridesmaids.
Post # 4
don’t have one – I’m not. I wouldn’t call them all Maid/Matron of Honor though, I just wouldn’t have one at all and they would all be BMs
Post # 5
It’s not uncommon for there to be no maid of honor. You can simply tell them that you adore them all!
Post # 6
Have none or pick your 2 best friends.
Post # 7
i think having none is simpler than choosing….
Post # 8
I do not have a Maid/Matron of Honor. I have 3 BMs. When I was asked by my dress sales lady who was my Maid/Matron of Honor, I told her oi didn’t have one. The 2 BMs not my sister both said they assumed it would be my sister. I do love her and hang out with her the most, but she is so busy with school and tends to be a little scatter brain end. Acutally all my girls are in school, so I think that just having it all flexible is easier. Also my mom is adamant about not having family throw the shower for you, and I didn’t want to ask the other girls to do this and not have the best title. Also, the one girl who is my bestie and will be the most helpful, I have known the shortest (less than 1 year). I just didn’t want to hurt any feelings.