(Closed) Help with my apology….

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Well, its hard without knowing the situation but I’d probably say like “I’m sorry I (blank). I know it hurt your feelings. I’d never do that intentionally.”

But, its hard to say without knowing the circumstances 

Post # 5
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Oh, I just saw that you apologized. If that’s the case, treat him to dinner, buy him some beer, take him to a movie etc if you feel like you need to make it up to him.

Post # 6
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3220 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think the best apologies are long-term apologies.  Consistently show him that you’re devoted to him, love him, and are willing to work on your relationship.  Make an effort to effectively communicate and love him in ways he enjoys– whether that’s cooking him dinner or letting him veg out on the couch without bothering him or seeing a movie together once a week. 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sometimes making up can take a little time with men.  I might throw a couple of personalized gestures to him to let him know non-verbally (in addition to the verbal way) that you love him for who he is.

For me, it usually involves a “cereal night” where my SO, a true kid at heart, comes home to breakfast for dinner including his childhood fav PB Cap’n Crunch and watching American Dad and Family Guy 🙂

Make it personal, but make a little effort.  Hell, we expect flowers when they mess up–do something cute for him!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Why don’t you invite his mates, and their wives over for dinner? Then he can see that you are making an effort with his friends.  Maybe a casual BBQ? The guys can be guys around the fire and you can drink wine with the women.

 

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