(Closed) Help with party animal roommate!

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

“I was just wondering if you could have your get togethers during the weekend? I have get up really early in the morning and would greatly appreciate it.”

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

that is NOT COOL.  I am terrible at this kind of thing.  I would probably send her an email because I wouldn’t want to ask her to her face. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

pretty sure having a roommate means you should be considerate of their needs as well. request that she not do it.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

She probably doesn’t realize it’s bothering you so much.  She can’t read your mind, after all, so if you don’t let her know otherwise she’ll keep on thinking everything is hunky-dory, and the mid-week parties will continue. 

Sounds like you get along well, I bet she’d be willing to make some changes if you ask.  Wouldn’t you, if the roles were reversed? Say something like “I hate to sound like a boring grown-up, but I have a hard time sleeping when lots of people are over and it’s affecting my job.  I’d appreciate it if you saved the big parties for the weekends and keep the weekday gatherings small and low-key.” or something along those lines.  Work together to find a compromise you both can agree on. 

Good luck!

Post # 7
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Worker bee

My roommate does this and she lives IN MY DORM ROOM so I totally understand how its a problem LOL. I talked to her about it and she know knows that if she comes in and I am in bed then she can’t be loud and the lights should stay off. She has people over when I am going to be out or they hang out in the hallway. You both need to talk and come to an agreement

 

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