Post # 1
So i’m a couple of months away from my wedding and I love my future hubby we’ve been together for 5 years. But lately I find my self thinking about my ex alot. He and I only dated for 2 years but it was the greatest realtionship i’ve ever had we had so much fun together until toward the end of the realtionship. I don’t know what to do i’m not sure if I’m just being dumb and missing my ex for no reason or what…..Any advice would be great!!
Post # 5
I agree it’s probably normal to think twice about things before you take the leap but i think saying you had your ex had the greatest relationship ever is a little odd. Are you saying it was better then you and your FI? Maybe you should try to focus on why it ended because I am sure it came to end for a good reason if it was such a great relationship. Maybe your giving this relationship too much credit because it was so long ago??
Post # 6
If the relationship you had with your ex was the best one you’ve ever had, why are you getting married to someone else? Not trying to be rude, I just find this very odd. Your Fiance doesn’t deserve to be your ‘second best relationship’.
Post # 7
She finished it off with “…until toward the end of the realtionship.”
OP: Your ex is an “ex” for a reason. Remember that.
Post # 8
I also think it’s normal to compare. I often have dreams about ex’s, but when I wake up I am always really happy to see FH by my side. Listen to your instincts, but don’t forget that when you look back you tend only to remember the good things and not the day-to-day nonsense.