(Closed) Help..Cold feet

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 5
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357 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I agree it’s probably normal to think twice about things before you take the leap but i think saying you had your ex had the greatest relationship ever is a little odd. Are you saying it was better then you and your FI? Maybe you should try to focus on why it ended because I am sure it came to end for a good reason if it was such a great relationship. Maybe your giving this relationship too much credit because it was so long ago??

Post # 6
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484 posts
Helper bee

If the relationship you had with your ex was the best one you’ve ever had, why are you getting married to someone else? Not trying to be rude, I just find this very odd. Your Fiance doesn’t deserve to be your ‘second best relationship’.

Post # 7
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5653 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

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@BellsforHer: She finished it off with “…until toward the end of the realtionship.”

OP: Your ex is an “ex” for a reason. Remember that.

Post # 8
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312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I also think it’s normal to compare. I often have dreams about ex’s, but when I wake up I am always really happy to see FH by my side.  Listen to your instincts, but don’t forget that when you look back you tend only to remember the good things and not the day-to-day nonsense.

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