(Closed) Helping a friend get advice… he won’t commit to his gf

posted 8 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

I think they both deserve better and should break up.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

It sounds like he wants the best of both worlds – the security of a girlfriend at “home” but the freedom to go out and explore.  My ex boyfriend wanted this as well.  It’s really not fair to the other person in the relationship.  My opinion is that he needs to pick one or the other, which sounds like it would be breaking up.  (My ex had all the same reasons, by the way.  Didn’t want to lose the friendship, wanted a break in order to decide whether or not I was the right girl, etc.)

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

All th edisaster signs right here. I think they owe it to each other to call it a day.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Wow, your friend doesnt need a guy that needs to test the waters before committing to her, especially after 2.5 years! Thats a big sign of immaturity and he needs to grow up. After 2.5 and he needs to date other girls before he can committ further? What a d bag! He should already know if he wants to keep going in the relationship or not. Your friend deserves better, she needs to move on from him and he can just get over staying “friends” or not, he cant have his cake and eat it, too!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

definitely time to move on. being long distance is a make or break. it makes you stronger OR, in some cases, it makes you realize that the person you’re with isn’t enough for you.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think they should break up. I also think you should stay mum on it! He needs to figure it out for himself..

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

They definitely need to call it quits! People are not in LDR relationships for convenience… the relationship has to be worth the trouble. He’s obviously not into her & he needs to stop being selfish. I’d tell him to let her go & find someone closer to home!

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