Helping hand

posted 7 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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7030 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

jennygurl83 :  Like….in what context? You’re both drunk in a one night hookup….or he just randomly asked for a handjob? 

Post # 4
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2761 posts
Sugar bee

I would just have sex with him.  Why spend the energy giving him a handy when you can get some pleasure out of it as well!

Post # 6
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1353 posts
Bumble bee

Can’t say I’ve ever been interested in giving out a casual handjob. Nope. And if he asked me that out of nowhere, I’d never been interested in him after that. 

Post # 7
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323 posts
Helper bee

If we started making out then maybe would do it as a way of not going further lol 

Post # 8
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517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

Why would it matter if he’s attractuve or not… I mean this just sounds awkward all around. He’s pefectly capable of using his own hand.

The only way someone would say yes, is if they wanted the relationship to evolve.. and let’s just say if he sees you as, dry spell handjob material and not dating or mutal pleasure friends with benefits sex material the whole thing is just going to end poorly. Using you for your hand makes him a bad friend. 

Post # 9
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586 posts
Busy bee

No thanks. 

Post # 10
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260 posts
Helper bee

Personally I’d find that quite an uncomfortable situation because I don’t view any of my friends in that way or imagine doing things like that with them so I’d say no. It’s 100% up to you what you do though, just remember that it could potentially compromise your friendship. 

Post # 12
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1389 posts
Bumble bee

No because:

1) I’m gay

2) I don’t touch my friends’ genitals

3) This is a wedding forum, why is your first post about giving male friends handjobs? 

This seems like something a bored guy pretending to be a girl would ask 

 

Post # 13
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1514 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

Surely he has hands of his own.  Sounds like he’s just being a hornball.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2019 - City, State

jennygurl83 :  At this point it’s sounding like you’re looking for affirmation from the boards to go and sleep with this guy or at least get busy with him.  If that’s what you want, then…just go do that.  You don’t need to post on a forum for that or get permission from people.

However, if you’re feeling pressured to do this by this guy, then tell him to pound sand and don’t ever touch him.

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