- 6 years ago
I deleted my first post on this because it was a little too specific and someone might recognize it :x. My boyfriend is going through some personal issues involving death and dying. He’s afraid he’s going to die young and won’t be around for our future. He said he’s never had these thoughts, but thinks it may be because he’s so happy with me that he’s afraid he’ll lose that. I assured him that we will grow old together – even though I know something could happen to either of us at any time. He said me talking to him helped.
He has been clinging onto me (not in a bad way) over the past few days, asking me to curl up to him in bed and telling me he loves me so much. He’s not eating or sleeping well. He will randomly take me in his arms and tell me he loves me and just hold me for a while. It hurts me to see him going through this and not have the answers for him. He’s going to talk to someone in a church. I just hope it helps him feel at peace…
Have you ever had fears of dying and what happens when you die? What else can I do for him? Right now I’m just trying to be there for him..