(Closed) Help….what do you do when someone thinks they are invited to your wedding….

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1645 posts
Bumble bee

Have you been talking about your wedding with her? Cease all wedding talk immediately.

Post # 4
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Be honest. That’s all you can do. If you really don’t want to extend them an invite tell them between FI’s family and your family there just isn’t room on the guest list.

But I’m curious what you have been telling her in the meantime when she keeps calling/texing.

Post # 6
263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Let them know that because of budget or space contraints you weren’t able to include everyone you would have liked… plain and simple.  

Post # 7
448 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Maybe the just want to do something nice for you. But do be honest and say I was planning on only having family and a few friends because of budget….

Post # 8
184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

When people start asking for my wedding date or want to hint around to see if they are invited, me and my Fiance tell people that we haven’t finalized anything, or we haven’t planned that far.  We do say its in September…. but avoid saying the exact date unless they press the date issue.

Post # 9
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I told people that due to budget restrictions, we decided to have a small wedding with just family and very few friends. That’s not exactly true, but we are having  less than 50 people at our wedding.

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