- 5 years ago
I’ve got a hen do at the end of this month but I’m now not sure if I should attend because of a huge fallout with my sister.
Firstly some background……My sister and I used to be really close but we’ve grown increasingly apart since our mother died 2 years ago. She’s changed a lot and some of her behaviour’s been really hard to deal with and it’s basically resulted in a total breakdown in our relationship. It’s to the point where neither of us want anything to do with eachother.
The problem is we’ve both been invited to this hen do, my sister is closer to the bride and is going to be a bridesmaid but I also get on well with the bride too. I’m worried about going to the do because I don’t trust my sister to behave, she’ll have a few drinks then she’ll become nasty(she does this).
She say’s she’ll be civil but she can be incredibly vindictive bordering on vicious when she wants to be and she’s given me no reason whatsoever to trust her . There’s only 10 of us going to the do so it’s not as if we’ll be able to avoid eachother either, if there is any animosity it will be pretty obvious.
The bride is a genuine and lovelly girl and I’d be gutted if her hen night was marred by an a family squabble so should I take the easiest route and just not go.?
I don’t want to let the bride down and I’ve already paid for some of the hen do but thought of going and there being an arguement is making me feel sick with the worry of it all.
I’d really appreciate some advice on this.