Post # 1
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806 posts
Busy bee
What are you guys doing for yours?
one of my bridesmaids first said she would organise something,but it hasnt happend and she asked me ‘ what i was doing for it’ so I guess she isnt helping after all..I’m a bit annoyed as now i have to organise something myself and I was kinda leaving it to her as she said she would sort it..anyway, now i’m looking at doing something but it seems impossiable to get everyone in the same palce as we are so far away from everyone.. i might just not bother, but then i think i should as its tradition!
are you guys organsiing your own or are your bridesmaids/friends/fam sorting it for you?
it just seems like another stressful thing to add to the list of many!
Post # 2
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180 posts
Blushing bee
My Maid/Matron of Honor is having marriage issues so ive pretty much done my hens myself. Its this weekend and im super excited!! its called wild boys afloat so topless waiters and strippers oh yeah!! lol
so far i have had 2 pull out this week so its stressing me but to be honest im just trying to focus on the people that are coming and going to enjoy my night 🙂
Post # 3
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663 posts
Busy bee
My Maid/Matron of Honor organized an overnight trip. One of my bridesmaids didn’t go because of financial issues, and the other one didn’t want to go because she’s busy with vet school, she even blamed me for her missing a Sunday study session. It wasn’t my fault! Anyway my mom came too because I consider her my best friend. We all drove 2.5 hours to the beach but to be honest I wish I never had a bachelorette party. It was just too much drama and awkwardess.
Post # 4
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1550 posts
Bumble bee
I was hoping not to have one but my Maid/Matron of Honor is adament it will happen whether I want it or not! I dont drink so Ive already put my foot down about that (a night out is her ideal and my worst nightmare). I think I will push for afternoon tea or something small and quiet. If everyone is too spread out you could always just organise a small dinner with your bridesmaids or female family members that live close by.