- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
The little wedding stressors are beginning to appear. It has pretty much began when we sent out the invites.
First is my 15 or 16 year old cousin. I sent an invite to the family and got a reply asking if my cousin could bring a date. For all my other guests I accounted that they may bring a date, I just didn’t think my 15 year old cousin would. Okay, fine. I’m just gonna confirm the number of people attending a couple weeks before the wedding cause what is the chance they will even be dating in two months?
Then there is one of my best friends. She told me today that her Boyfriend or Best Friend will only be coming to the ceromony. Okay whatever. Then she says “but you know me, I probably won’t know until a couple days before the wedding.” I explained to her that I put an Aug 4 RSVP date for a reason. I need to get the count into the caterers and chair cover lady. I also need to do the seating chart. AURRGGH!!!! This coming from a girl who says “she’s never getting married cause of all the planning.” Well it’s little things like that that cause me stress.
Then there is my sister/maid of honour who is just so scattered and does not do anything! The only time she attempts to do stuff is when I talk to her and she’s missing information. Then she wants me to HURRY cause she needs to get it done that day! If I never made the attempt to talk to her she wouldn’t have even done it in the first place so i’m sure it could wait another day.
Okay, just needed to rant.