- 8 years ago
- Wedding: November 2010
I would call them, not text them and say.
“I am really hurt by your text, you have known you were going to be a bm for 2 years, you have also known that you would have to by a dress. You only just planned this holiday, i am not ok for you to wear a dress you already have, how do we go on from here?”
Dont threaten them, express how you feel and if they are still intent on being selfish even after knowing your position and how upset you are then are they really worthy of being in your bridal party.