- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
long story short… my sister (really a cousin, that had been taken in by my mom) had been dating this guy on and off for the past few years. He has never held a stable job (neither has she) and hasnt had a car well since never. Anyways they keep breaking up and leaving her and her 2 daughters age 5 and 7 to fend for themselves. this has happened more times than i can count on my fingers and toes. Well the last time they got back togther they decided to get engaged. Most of the family and her friends turned against her because, and denied her any help with her wedding that she was planning for this August. Which gave her less then 5 months to plan a wedding without any money. But i was happy for her, afterall every girl deserves her dream wedding right? i went dress, shopping,made and sent out her save the dates, helped her withalot of DIY stuff. and then today i find out on good ol FB that she is “single”!!! WTF really? i just dont get it how do you go from getting married in about 2months to “single” in one day??? yesterday i talked to her and they were fine, she was saying how he made her dinner, picked the girls up from school and today she is single? i just got off the phone with her and she said that he just changed his mind.
I hate to say it but i wish that they just break up for good now? is this awful? i cant help but feel that their whole rlationship is a joke. i obviously cant tell her that but. i feel that i have waisted so much time and money for this wedding that is now not happening, because he changed his mind. In all honesty i cant say i totally blame him she has ALOT of baggage, but after that many years shouldnt he hav figured that out?