Post # 1
I joined the bee just after Christmas last year and my SO didn’t know a thing. I’ve been really careful to delete it from the history and not to look (as much as I want to!) when he’s around. Just because I don’t want him to feel any extra pressure from me.
BUT HE’S FOUND OUT!!!!!
I stupidly shut his laptop without closing the webpage yesterday when my mum wanted a chat and forgot all about it. This morning I woke up and he was downstairs on his laptop and he said, “So MissHoney, what is this…. Weddingbee??” Haha whooops!
Luckily he found itreally funny and I just gave a flat out denial even though I know he knows it’s me. Well, my secret is out but the world hasn’t crumbled!
Anyone else had their weddingbee secret discovered? How did your SO take it?
Post # 3
He knows i am on all the time, he thinks it’s great for me, i don’t think he will join haha.
Post # 4
My Fiance knows i’m on it all the time. When he gets home from work he always asks, “whats new with the bees?”
He also did the research for our wedding and honeymoon insurance and confessed this morning that he looked on weddingbee. He called himself a “lurker bee.” I almost died laughing bc i thought he learned that from the bees but he actually made it up as as a joke bc he knows about “worker bee..”
Goof. If your SO is anything like mine he thinks its cute!!
Post # 5
LOL! My SO knows I’m on ‘some website’ but yesterday I was using his iPad and he took it away and saw the active threads page and said “oooh what are you looking at!” he then noticed an ad for a ring and said “ahhhh so I guess you know what I’ve been looking at now” and my response was “actually, I think that’s an ad based on the fact that it’s a WEDDING website, but good to know what you’ve been searching for! ;)”
Post # 6
My SO, now Darling Husband, found out pretty soon after I joined. He came into the room when I was on the desktop and didn’t realize he was behind me and he just started laughing. He actually did post on here once, I forget about what. He used to tease me about it, and after we got engaged we went for a walk around downtown and he asked me if I was dying to get back to my phone so i could post to “that wedding site” that we were engaged. lol
Post # 7
I chose other, and I started to type, and then my mind went blank! Argh!
Basically, he knows I’m on it but doesn’t know I post, and I think it bugs him a bit because we don’t have a date and we’re not able to set one yet. But come on, you put a ring on it nearly 6 years ago, I’ve gotta get my wedding kicks somewhere! Honestly, I’d say it’s really only been this year that I’ve been wedding crazy!
My day will come, eventually.
On the up side, as time goes by, my dream wedding is getting smaller, and smaller, and smaller…
Post # 8
He knows, although I did kind of hide it in the beginning (although I only found the site & joined after we got engaged).
He teases me a little, but I have also passed him funny threads to read… and when it’s been awhile, he’ll ask me in a sad voice “anything funny on your Weddingbee?”
He also understands its use as a resource when we’re stumped or at an impasse, as in “Look it up and see what Weddingbee says”.
Post # 9
Mine knows though i dont know how he feels about it..i dont know much about how he feels lately, he has been hard to read.
Post # 10
My Fiance knows and I share some of the threads with him. I show him some centrepieces, decor, dresses and rings, invitations, and once he peeked over my shoulder and said “What’s that?” I had to explain to him the whole “Garter & Bouquet” thing! He thinks it’s silly, glad I decided not to have one!
Post # 11
Mine is glad I’m entertaining myself while he is doing grad school work : )
Post # 12
“How are your Girls today?”
Almost everytime he comes home from work. You bees are my girls =)
Post # 13
my Darling Husband knows I’m on here, because the only reason why I know relatively what a traditional wedding entails is because of you ladies lol
Post # 14
Haha no my SO has no clue. He knows I have a wedding pinterest board but he doesn’t know how much I already have iedas for and plans for when the ring does come 🙂
Post # 15
@MissHoney: it’s a huge secret for me, my guily pleasure….
Post # 16
I joined WeddingBee after we were engaged and didn’t become active until about 4 months later. I am so addicted and Fiance knows it! He keeps threatening to block the IP address so that I can’t log on anymore. He thinks it’s horrible because you guys are why I keep adding on more DIY projects and staying up late. Lol. Whenever I’m stuck on something and he doesn’t give me any good opinions, I’ll tell him I’ll post a poll on WB and see what the bees say. He jokes that WB is ruining our lives, but I think you guys are just making it better! Lol 🙂