- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
am i overanalyzing or is this a sign it’s getting closer?!
friday night he suggests we go shopping some on saturday and then head over to old town to walk around for a few hours and have dinner around 7. this is pretty unusual, normally saturday is a stay-in day, enjoy laying around and being lazy since we don’t have to work and then maybe go to dinner, so i’m surprised he wants to go out and do stuff and i’m EXCITED about this! lol. when family visits we’ll normally go out and do things but besides just going to dinner on saturday with just us, we normally just hang around. as we were walking around old town he asks me if i want to go into the jewelery store. um, YES?? he asks ME. while we have a jeweler at home who is getting us our stone, i am happy that he’s not steering me away from that area. lol. so i look at one plain solitare in the case (mainly just interested in the stone) and he guesses the carat weight correctly while i thought it was bigger than it was. and then he says, “yours will be bigger.” i looked at him like, ‘wtf?’ wondering if he knew something, or if he’s just guessing (or wishing) our budget will get something more. we had been discussing about how we would visit our jeweler the next time we visit my home town, and i wanted to make sure he’d be there so i sent our jeweler a facebook message just to say hello and to ask if he would be there.
no response. hmm…strange. i asked my bf like 4 times, “why hasn’t he replied?” and he just says, “he probably doesn’t go on FB that much,” and i give it another day or two when he says we’d call him to make sure he’d be there. next time i check FB, i say, “hmm…he still hasn’t replied,” bf goes, “that’s because i told him not to,” with a chuckle. i looked at him like ‘hey, that’s mean!’ lol. later that night he asks me what date for sure we are going home to visit and i told him (for like the 3rd time) and asked why he wanted to know again like twice, and he goes, “no reason, just making sure i have my stuff together.” lol what stuff?? so i sat there in silence for about 30 seconds and i said, “but i thought we were going back in on the 23rd?” meaning, going back into the jewelers on the 23rd. he laughs and he’s like, “do you have to know everything?? just shushhhh!” lol i know it’s bothering him that i know so much about it (like what it will look like because i’m picking it out) but i keep telling him i have no idea when he will get it, or when he will give it to me. all day sunday i was looking at rings online trying to narrow down and compile my pictures to bring to the jeweler and he was looking with me. and last night, surprisingly on a week night, he wanted to go out again so we went shopping for stuff for our apartment. usually this is ALL ME and i just come home with stuff wishing he’d come pick some things out with me, but last night he wanted to look and he was being a good boy. lol. we were in bed bath and beyond and he wandered over to the china in the wedding registry area. he was picking up crystal saying, “this is the kind of stuff we can register for.” lol i was like, “yes hun, this is wedding-gift-type-stuff.” he seemed genuinely interested in CHINA.
he’s just been so sweet these past few days and so proactive about US that he has me falling in love with him all over again. can anyone relate?? what do you girls think, do you think i will be off the list soon?? 🙂