(Closed) he’s going to Vegas for his bachelor party….

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

What are you comfortable with? Just because they’re going to Vegas doesn’t mean they have to go crazy. Neither my Fiance or I am comfortable with strippers, so he’s not having any at his party. They are going paintballing, to a comedy club, hitting up a casino and partying in their hotel room.

Post # 4
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Well… I’m pretty sure Fiance has vetoed strippers on his own (he says he doesn’t like them), so my only condition is that he needs to avoid anything that might send him or one of his buddies to the ER. If he were going gambling, we’d probably have to talk about how much money he’d be willing to spend/lose.

I don’t have any worries about his behavior though, otherwise, even if someone does hire a stripper.

Post # 5
1008 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

My hubby spent 5 days there for his bachelors. All the guys were from out of the country so they went to PARTY as this was once in a lifetime opportunity. One brought like 8 grand to spend… I mean, HOW do you spend that much.

The guys were all a little older and I didnt really have limits. Yes, they drank, Fiance puked. They went to a strip club, and he got lap dances etc. but that doesnt really bother me personally.

I was more worried about excessive drinking. I made the boys promise me they would watch out if someone passed out or wandered off etc.

I feel like when you have HUGE plans like “the hangover” things really never work out like that.  Let him know how you feel about excessive drinking and strippers and a limit for gambling and then trust him.

And I tried to be good and only called him twice…..

Post # 6
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My Fiance is going to Vegas as well but so am I with all my girlfriends so I can’t complain! We actually decided to do our Bachelorette and Bachelor parties on the same weekend so we are flying out together then going to our seperate hotels but are planning on meeting up for dinner each night then doing our own things! My girlfriends and I love going to the clubs and dancing and I know that is not FI’s things so they will mostly gamble and I am sure go to a stip club. I think if you are marrying someone you trust them 100% and really don’t have anything to worry about.

Post # 7
2892 posts
Sugar bee

My rules? No swapping fluids and if you wouldn’t want me to find out about it then you shouldn’t be doing it. There’s a lot I’m cool with and we’re super open with eachother so he knows that if he would be afraid of me knowing about it it is DEFINTELY not within the realm of acceptable.

Post # 8
1561 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t put limits on anything my husband does… he’s an adult, he can figure it out.  

Post # 9
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

My husband went there for his stag. Perhaps they’re just good secret keepers but it sounded fairly controlled. They went to cirque Elvis and drank a lot and went golfing with a hired “caddy” hat I assume was just a hot chick in a short skirt… Nothing I wouldn’t be happy about I don’t think. 

Post # 11
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

No strippers in the hotel room, no dancers, no girls/women in that room.  My brother went to a vegas Bach party and the things he told me about made my stomach  turn.  If they go out to strip clubs who really cares?  even those lap dances aren’t 1/10th as bad as the girls coming to their location. 

My Fiance is going away for an overnight at that was the only stipulation…. the strip clubs here the girls get naked … i d on’t care.  Just no one back to their rooms.  Fiance was a marine and has seen it all so i’m pretty good about anything … just skeeeeves me out bringing entertainment back to the room.


Post # 13
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t put a limit on it. He’s an adult and can feel free to enjoy himself.

Post # 14
915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ugh, I hate the Bachelor party thing…. I told Fiance to not cross any lines. He knows what I think would be crossing a line. But the truth is I will probably never know if he does so I will just have to trust him. I don’t think I have to say “honey, dont cross a line”, but I just feel better saying it. I have seen my friends get way crazier at home then in Vegas though, Vegas wears you out! 

Post # 15
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Lt.Columbo:  Ditto.

My Fiance is also having his bach party in Vegas. I trust him to monitor himself.

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