Post # 1
My Fiance left me last night with next to no warning. I was basically completely blindsided. He said he’s been unhappy for the last 6 months but didn’t want to cause me anymore stress as I was finishing school and that he loves me but isn’t in love with me anymore.
I know you bees are gonna say that’s not enough info, but that’s all he gave me! Even his friends are shocked. He didn’t even give me any chance to try to fix anything, just kept saying nothing was going to change.
I don’t know what to do. We’ve been best friends for 12 years, dated for 4 and were engaged for 1. I don’t know how I’m supposed to be or what I’m supposed to do.. I feel like I’m dying.
Post # 4
I’m so sorry! I hope you get some answers soon. I can’t imagine someone just leaving suddenly with no reason.
Post # 5
- Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY
I’m so sorry you’re going through that and hope you get closure. (((Hugs)))
Post # 8
Your heart must be broken right now, I’m so sorry 🙁
Post # 10
I’m sorry this has happened Bee.
Post # 11
Oh no that’s terrible. (((((Hugs)))))) to you.
Post # 14
I’m so sorry bee! It must be so hard hopefully he will give you more of an explanation so you can have closure.
Post # 15
So sorry. 🙁 Guys sometimes think they are doing you a “favor” by waiting until you are less stressed or until something happens to break up, but it really only puts salt in the wound. I had a guy do that to me once. I thought things were fine and all of a sudden he blindsides me and says things hadn’t been good for a while.
Take care of yourself, and do not go looking for answers. He unfortunately gave you all the information you needed. I know you’re sad and heartbroken, but you don’t need to know the “why” of this situation. Grieve the relationship, be sad, and pick yourself back up again. You can and WILL get through this! <3