(Closed) He's gone..

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 61
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4029 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

He sounds like a first class dickhead. I’m really sorry for the chickenshit way that he decided to break up with you and also how much you are hurting.

Lean on friends and family right now and try to stay distracted so you can avoid thinking about it, do NOT call or text him and block him from any social media you have to protect yourself from being hurt more so. And above all take care of yourself, it hurts so much right now I promise it will get better…

Post # 63
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2553 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

lovingbrideforever :  Something in the bologna (probably something that would make you never want to eat bologna) reacts with the paint so when you peel it off the paint comes with it.

Post # 64
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48 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2015

beachbumm105 :  I am so sorry and actually know almost exactly how you feel. It happens, a lot! It happened to me and actually worked out for us. If you want to PM me I can tell you more details and steps we took to move forward. My advice is try to eat, surround yourself with friends and be steadfast in getting what you need to either move forward getting answers or move on. I actually hadn’t been able to reset my password on my old account and visited the site just to browse but when I saw your post I had to create a new account just to offer my story. 

Post # 66
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516 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

beachbumm105 :  OMG, I am SO very sorry. HOw devestated you must be feeling! I dnt think anyone can say anything to make you feel better right now. I hope time heals your wounds and all this happened for a reason. *HUGS*

Post # 67
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3020 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

🙁

So sorry this happened to you! Big internet hugs! 

I had a friend this happened to, only she was kicked out of her own apartment because the lease was in his name… never mind that she was paying her share of the rent and utilities. We were all outraged on her behalf. 

The good news is that she found better and more affordable housing nearby and, within a year, met someone who makes her very happy. So there is light at the end of the tunnel. But for now, be kind to yourself and lean on people you trust! 

Post # 68
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732 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I’m so sorry to hear this, Bee. My heart aches for you. I’ll keep you in my thoughts. Big hugs 💞

Post # 69
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3306 posts
Sugar bee

I love you but not in love with you (ILYBNILWY) is code for someone else…. In my experience. Big hugs for you. 

Post # 70
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9221 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry, bee. I know nothing I say can make things better, but just know that I’m thinking of you and am sending you a big virtual hug.

Post # 71
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348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017 - Combermere Abbey

Absolute coward. You are well to be rid of him, I say. I could never take someone like that back, you would be forever second guessing the state of your relationship due to his lack of communication skills! 

Post # 72
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296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016 - Backyard

beachbumm105 :  The sorry bastard didn’t deserve you. Keep telling yourself that. Even if he comes crawling back… he still doesn’t deserve you. My ex Fiance called off the wedding and said he wasn’t in love with me just weeks before our big day. I moved on and several months later he told me that he made a big mistake and wanted to get back together.  I said I moved on and that was it. Four months after that he contacted me (he’s a police officer and got my number) and said he met a woman and was happily married. I dodged a bullet by not marrying him and so did you with your guy. ((HUGS)) 

Post # 73
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767 posts
Busy bee

beachbumm105 :  it’s ok if you don’t feel you have much energy, life is draining 🙂 you’ll be ok, I bet even better than ever! You’ll see. It will just take time.

Post # 74
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218 posts
Helper bee

Oh, bee. No words. Sending love to you, though. My heart breaks for you, reading this…

Post # 75
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124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I am so sorry, this is just awful. I am sending you tons and tons of love and a huge internet hug. You will get through this.

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