(Closed) He’s joking right?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

From the info you have I really have no idea what his plans are or if he’s already bought something, I think you’re just going to have to be patient and wait and see. But if you two have discussed what rings you like I would just drop the subject for awhile (longer than just a couple of weeks) and let him take care of this one, unless he asks for more help.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yup, I think he bought the one you didn’t want.  But I bet he exchanges it now, LOL.  Don’t get your hopes too far up, but IMO, it is coming soon, or at least as soon as he can exchange that ring.  Try to sit back and be patient (as hard as it is), he obviously has something, some time, already in mind so let him do that for you.  Gosh, patience sucks.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

@TequilaSunrise:Then he said give this topic a rest and let him make his move. I said so when can I re-approach? He said give me a couple of weeks… What the heck does that mean?

It means give it a rest for a couple weeks that’s all. 🙂 He probably doesn’t want to be talking about it constantly while he’s trying to make plans.

Post # 7
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2892 posts
Sugar bee

@TequilaSunrise: You have anything else to concentrate on for the time being? Christmas? Vacations? Decorating your house? School? I understand being excited. I’ve probably asked my guy 5 times a week for the last 3 weeks if my Christmas present is awesome. (He’s since decided to give me a hard time about it and tell me I’m not getting anything now Wink) But I totally get it. Thing is is there are things you can bug ppl about and things you can’t. This is one of them that you can’t. If you can resist, I just wouldn’t talk about it anymore. He’s obviously making plans. If a few weeks from now you feel like bursting maybe ask him when he wants to get married, or where, or something wedding related that isn’t “when/how are you proposing” directed. 

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