Post # 17
@eloping: I remember that thread about you breaking up those couples… not on purpose, but just through your honesty! lol
It’s true… I say, if your man doesn’t know by year 3- he’ll never know! He’ll never ask & you’re wasting your time. I told my Fiance after our first date that my cut-off is our 3rd anniversary. lol I got my ring less than a month before 🙂 so he really waited until the 11th hour.
Post # 18
I read the book and think it should be required reading for all women. The movie? Eh, take it or leave it. It didn’t give me a strong reaction either way. I just mentioned in another thread how I seem to be the go-to friend who solves my friend’s problems. This book definitely gave me some great advice to give them. I’ve told sooo many of my girlfriends “Hun, he’s just not that into you.” And it’s usually true. The book is pure common sense. If he has your number and he likes you, he’ll call. If he’s blowing you off repeatedly, he’s trying to get rid of you. Common sense! I don’t think it’s that guys are jerks, necessarily (although many are). I think it’s that some girls are just so SILLY when it comes to relationships. Women get so wrapped up in the fantasy and romance of things that they lose their freaking minds! I’m just so glad I don’t have to go through that anymore. No more games for this gal!