Post # 1
This is more of a vent…
Tonight D and I went out to dinner at Red Robin (very good btw!) and several times throughout the night we talked about getting engaged and he kept saying that it will “happen sooner than” I think. The thing is I have NO idea when it will happen. I know it won’t be soon because we are both full time students and I have an unpaid internship (at a bridal shop!) and he has been laid off work since Oct, so neither one of us has any money. Why does he feel the need to tell me that it will happen sooner than I think all the time? He has to know he is just toying with my emotions!
Post # 3
Seriously, I understand where you’re coming from as my main man has done this to me a time or two (and by a time or two, I mean hundreds of times, LOL!) I can’t speak to your man, but Mr. Chicken Wing and I had a talk about it after one particular instance, and he apologized when he realized what it was doing to me. He said that it was his way of letting me know that marrying me was what he wanted. Maybe D is the same way?!?! If it does really bother you, I would say just sit down and talk calmly with him. Maybe your talk will turn out the same way as mine, which helped me a lot since I’m still “waiting.” Good luck!
Post # 4
Ditto Girls! During our anniversary in September when I was bummed it didn’t happen, he said it will happen “soon” ummm 3 months later still nothing. Stay strong and ILuvDance if you both have no money maybe he is saying that in order to reassure that it is going to happen, just not this moment.
Post # 5
WE LOVE Red Robin! But those bottomless fries are daaaaaangerous. I’m sure it will come sure and him being annoying is really his way of reassuring you that he wants to marry you!
Post # 6
My Boyfriend or Best Friend knows he is toying with my emotions and I think he likes it lol…
Im ok with it though because I know its coming soon…well hopefully!
I think that its a good sign that he is willing to talk about it. I also think its a good think that you have no idea when it will happen. Maybe he wants it to be a surprise! Thats what I want! lol
Post # 7
Yum, red robin is so good! Well, this happened many times with us, and he would give me that exact line! Very frustrating and I totally understand, and then BAM! He surprised me! He really wanted me to be surprised and wanted to keep me in the dark about it and he did, and it was even more exciting because of it. One thing that was reassuring to me was that he was going to do it and that he knew that I couldn’t wait forever (we dated 5 years), so I would remind myself of that, and it helped. It was also helpful to let him know how frustrating his comments were, so I told him not to talk to me about it anymore, and he respected that. Hope this helps.
Post # 8
Thanks for your support girls! I think I will sit him down and have a chat about it. My heart can’t take much more of his teasing!