(Closed) He’s teasing me and everyone else…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
363 posts
Helper bee

I love date night!  It’s so important to go out and have fun with SO.  It is kinda funny and cute that he posted “wife to be” 🙂  but at the same time, I can understand why it’s not that funny to you.  Good stuff about telling him that you weren’t enjoying having to tell everyone “no”.

I’m really hoping your wait is over soon.  It’s sounds promising to me if he’s making public comments and his sister was inquiring etc. 

Good luck!

Post # 4
1325 posts
Bumble bee

Yeah, I would NOT be amused at all. lol It already bothers me a lot when our mutual friend calls me J’s wife. if this friend wants to hang out with us, he will tell J to ask his wife, me, if I want to join. Or this friend will ask J “So, how’s the wife doing?”  Or when over at this friend’s house I hear “Hey, does wife want any tea?” I think I may start giving out my all powerful stink eye to said friend.

Post # 5
2260 posts
Buzzing bee

Agh that would totally fustrate me to no end, but I would be very excited too cause you know he wouldn’t be doing that if he didn’t have something planned very soon. *fingers crossed for you*!

Post # 6
1670 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

OMG, that’s funny how the first post came out!!  I would be mad if my SO did that.  Wife to be means engaged.  Now when you are engaged your friends might think it is a joke again.  I used to wear a promise ring from my SO on my wedding finger and got so irritated from the questions that I stopped wearing it.  I hated saying no I’m not engaged and they would look at my all weird.  At least your SO will knows not to do that anymore and he is thinking about it.  Maybe he is just preparing himself before the real thing.  Hope his next post is the offical WIFE to be announcement.  : )

Post # 8
3305 posts
Sugar bee

I hope something is planned – otherwise it isn’t funny… good luck!~

Post # 9
413 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Megan316: The first time, ya, it’d be humerous. The second time and so on? Not so much. I’d be pretty ticked off at J if he ever did something like that. I’d probably say: “Unless you plan on proposing to me sometime in the next few days, I suggest you STOP. NOW.”


Post # 10
667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with @GwenvonD: it may have been cute the first time but I would be mad if he kept posting that without being engaged. It puts you in an embarassing situation to explain to everyone that no you are not engaged yet. I would tell him to knock it off until you are engaged. Hopefully this means that he is propsing soon though.

Post # 11
1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think it is cute! But I do see why it would be annoying dealing with people asking if you are engaged…. 

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