(Closed) Hesitation on wedding planning

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2478 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

Nah girl. Get a fake ring to wear to the venues and plan away. You know it is happening, so make it happen. just be low key about it. Discreetly book your venue and but wait for the dress. Venue shopping is vicious. but try to avoid doing anything that requires putting down money until you have got the ring.

Post # 5
1083 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014


I agree.  If you are sure about this then by all means plan and prepare as much as you can, but I also would not make any payments on anything until the proposal/ring.

Good luck, this is exciting, congrats!

Post # 6
35 posts

Don’t start planning until he proposes.

One day, while my fiance and I were watching a wedding show, a girl said she was shopping for a dress and wasn’t even engaged.  My fiance was disgusted and said he’d be so angry if he found out I was shopping/planning before we even got engaged.

The most I’d do for now is look at magazines.

Post # 7
24 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’d discuss it with your SO. Let him know (if he doesn’t know already) that weddings don’t plan themselves over night. Since the relationship’s moving in that direction anyway and you’re both on board for it, I don’t see why you couldn’t start planning. It sounds like you’re both in the “engaged” mentality anyway, so go for it!

My SO and I are in a similar situation. He has the ring, we know it’s going to happen, he’s saving up now (has been for 6 months already) and buying a house for us next spring, so it’s like everything’s falling into place. We’ve discussed wedding planning, and though we don’t have a specific date set, we still discuss planning the wedding. I think if y’all are both open and ready to start planning, go for it! Good luck to both of you!!

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