(Closed) Hey may have had a break through…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Sounds like he’s finally maturing to me. It takes some men time to get to that point, even if they are with a great girl from the get go. My SO was never the type to go out to a bar thank goodness, and always wanted to either invite his friends over, work on cars with his dad, or just hang out with me. It’s great when a guy realizes the bachelor life isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee

@Steelergirl:  I’m glad you got a result you want, but I’m a bit worried by your post. Name calling should have no place in a relationship. It’s mean and destructive of your bond. I’m also confused: what did he do wrong? You told him to go have fun. Did you agree on him coming home by a certain time? It doesn’t seem fair to tell him to go out when he asks, and then be mad at him for doing what you agreed to.

 

There are lots of articles online about fighting fair. Here’s one: http://marriage.about.com/cs/conflictandanger/ht/fightfair.htm

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

@wilfred:  Agreed.

If someone called me a “piece of shit” I would be out the door before they were even done. That is just so disrespectful and unecessary.

I am even more confused since you had told him to go out!

You two really should look into couple’s counseling before you get married.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

@Steelergirl:  Aaahhh I’m so excited for you – it does sound like he is coming around!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Steelergirl:  While I don’t condone name-calling, I understand your frustration and annoyance at your SO coming home later than the agreed upon time. It was irresponsible and immature but not something you should hold against him as he seems genuinely apologetic. Saying he needs to buy a ring and make an honest woman out of you is a good sign, I’d say. Have you had a discussion regarding your expectations regarding engagement/marriage?

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