(Closed) Hey y’all…new and introducing myself

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1088 posts
Bumble bee

Welcome to the waiting board!

I’m sorry about what happened.  Have you tried discussing a timeline with him?

Post # 4
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1188 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Welcome to the Hive! 

That is very frustrating and I would be hurt too by the “fake proposal” thing. Have you tried having a rational, calm discussion with him about a loose timeline? That’s the first thing I would do! He can’t read your mind and it’s important that you both be on the same page if things are going to work. Hopefully after that maybe you’ll feel better about the whole thing. 

Post # 6
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2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hi there, Welcome!  You have come to a place with very smart woman to help with good advice and support.  I am sorry about what happened and I hope that you two can work it out for the better. 

 

Post # 7
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1188 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Well if you’ve already talked in-depth about marriage and your future, the only thing you can really do is Mr. Bee’s Plan. It’s very tough, but I hear it’s worth the wait Wink. I have 10 weeks to go until the suspected date my SO might propose so I feel your pain! Just keep busy and focus on yourself and your kids!

Post # 8
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1088 posts
Bumble bee

@Dallasnkyle:  But it sounds like you are more confused/frustrated by the fact that he asked and didn’t want you to say anything.  It doesn’t seem like being proposed to without a ring was the problem. . .or am I confused?

Did you guys talk about why he didn’t want you to say anything (ie change your fb status)?

Post # 10
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Dallasnkyle:  Welcome, I’m sorry about your situation. 🙁 

 

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