Post # 1
So as you can tell by my “ughh face” I’m not sure what’s going on. We are less than 3 months away and we have 3 people on the “loopy bus” (thats what were calling the people that are flaking right now on everything!!) It’s crazy everything has been going so well and all the sudden its like happened in a blink that these 3 people have been flaking!!! I can’t really do much about it but tell myself if they show up they show up! I just needed to vent a little.
But there is one thing I and yes I AM FEELING GUILTY for and it really sucks because its my girls besides my Matron of Honor, that sadly are making me feel this way its the fact that i feel so guilty for asking them to pay for there Nails just fingers NO TOES I gave them that option and to just buy their shoes. I have paid for everything else, dresses, makeup, hair etc. All i seriously asking of them is to just pay for their nails to get done and buy their shoes. I don’t care if they get 10 dollar shoes 🙁 it just sucks that me asking this makes me feel like a horrible person!!!!!! I don’t want to feel this way.
Am I wrong for asking them of this? 🙁 Am i a horrible bride!? :((
Post # 3
Wow, I WISH you were my bride at the wedding I was just in!
I paid for my almost $200 dress, my hideous neon yellow nails, shoes, hair, and dress alterations!
I do not think you are a horrible bride to ask them to pay for some damn shoes and a manicure.
Don’t let them make you feel guilty. There are much worse brides out there. TRUST ME.
There wasn’t even alcohol at my bride’s bachelorette party. And my God, I wish there was. A whole vat of it.
Post # 4
Wow your a great bride! Most weddings everything is usually paid for by the BMs. My girls have to pay for their dresses and boots (theyre picking them out) and hair/nails if they want them. The only thing I was able to provide was makeup. Dont feel guilty at all and if they give you issues they’re ungreatful and need to suck it up.
In my sisters wedding Im paying $250 for the dress, plus my shoes and hair and nails if i want them.
Post # 5
Awe thank you bees!! You guys are putting smiles on my face! I have tried really hard to make it as easy as possible because i know times are hard you know? It just sucks!! Even my matron of honor is like calming me down and making the other girls suck it up but dang lol
I guess it cause I had a dinner tonight with the ones who came and their FACES where just like IDK how to explain but like “ehhh or digusted in a way” that they had to pay for these 2 things and thats when i just felt guilty as hell.
But thank you bees 🙂