(Closed) Hi. My story (or why I have no buisness being here)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
9956 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@ditzkitten:  Hi and Welcome to the Bee!  It’s a fun place.

Look at it this way, you may not be ready for marriage quite yet, but we all had to start somewhere.  You’ll get lots of great ideas for your future wedding if nothing else.

Glad to have you!

Post # 4
5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Wanting something and knowing it’s a bad idea doesn’t make you a bad person, it makes you human.  Let the Hive assist in any way it can!

Post # 5
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Welcome! I have even less business being here seeing as I am not even waiting! I came on here for Maid/Matron of Honor advice and the wedding has come and gone and I am still here πŸ™‚

Post # 6
8041 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@ditzkitten:  Welcome!! This site definitely is a good community and a fun place, but might not help quell your wedding fever πŸ˜‰


Post # 7
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Hi and welcome I am also 19 while my SO is 23 we are in the same place since he is applying to graduate school and I am in undergrad still. I think realizing it is not feasible to get married yet only makes you more mature. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with waiting. Sometimes waiting makes it even more special when the time comes.


Welcome to the hive πŸ™‚ everyone here will make your waiting time much easier.

Post # 8
3063 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Welcome! The waiting board was such a big help when I was in that stage! I was a “Waiting Bee” for about a year and it was so nice to be able to vent to women who knew what I was going through! I hope you find the site to be just as supportive and comforting as I did! πŸ™‚

Post # 10
26 posts

I know this feeling! Around the same age range as you. My SO and I are in a LDR, same country but opposite sides, and will be until we are finished school… and even then he does not believe in living together before marriage. So I’m not sure when it’ll EVER be. The waiting boards are relieving – so many other girls like you – but also sometimes make it worse, seeing bees who have been “waiting” for less time get engaged before you. But welcome to the Bee!!

Post # 12
469 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Welcome, even if you arnt getting married yet, there are other great boards on WB that are fun to read! πŸ™‚

Post # 13
817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Nona99:  +1

Welcome!!! Even if you know ur not getting engaged any time soon, stay for the conversation πŸ™‚

Post # 14
427 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

There are lots of fun boards in the Not Wedding Related section (Waiting is in there too) but especially games in the Lounge and I second other PP’s, you sound like you’ve got a good head on your shoulders and the weddingbee community will be so kind to you – hopefully πŸ˜‰


Post # 15
1222 posts
Bumble bee

@ditzkitten:  It’s wonderful finding another young bee! I’m 19 as well. But so is my SO. We’re kind of in the same boat as you- we’d love to get married, but we are nowhere near financially ready.

Post # 16
461 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Aww! Welcome! (and what I am about to say, means absolutely no disrespect towards the younger bees).

You guys make me feel like I’m not too young to want to get married. At 22 I always feel like I must be too young to have these feelings…

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