(Closed) Highly offended by drinking during ceremony

posted 6 years ago in Interfaith
  • poll: Should I call the Jewish parents and tell them how upset I am??
    Yes - the burden should be theirs : (18 votes)
    17 %
    No - but never go to a family function is SHE will be there : (17 votes)
    17 %
    Hope my now son-in-law takes care of it : (68 votes)
    66 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee

    I would just let it go.

    Post # 4
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    Blushing bee

    Mind your own business.

    Post # 5
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Shouldn’t this be under “family”? It has nothing to do with religion.

    Post # 6
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    That is terribly unfortunate. But there’s nothing you can do about it now, so your only real option is to figure out how to let it go. She was very rude, and I’m sorry she ruined it for you. But you can decide to not let the inappropriateness of one person get to you so much that even two weeks later you’re still upset.

     

    Post # 7
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    None of the above: Get Over It.

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    None of your poll options fit what I think you should do, which is let it go.

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Not sure what religion has anything to do with this. 

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I would also add that perhaps I wouldn’t find this post so objectionable if you hadn’t made it about religion. Someone sitting drinking vodka in the 2nd row is rude at ANY wedding. Judaism has nothing to do with it.

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @mightywombat:  I agree. Why are they “the Jewish parents,” instead of “my son-in-law’s parents”?

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Hahahahaha what a jerk she was to do that!!!   I would just let it go, thoguh.  It’s not your business.  It’s just incredibly funny and ridiculous that she would do that!

     

    At first I thought you said someone was highly offended at drinking during the reception…and I was like, wow is this Carrie A. Nation posting??  =)

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Let it go.

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

     Let it go.  And what does her being Jewish have to do with anything???

     

    While it might not have been appropriate behavior, the day is over with and in the grand scheme of things….what damage was done???

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    i doesnt matter if its religous or in a garden park – no one should be drinking shots during a christening/wedding etc.  cant people control themselves for even 30mins??

    i would let it go

    Post # 16
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I didn’t vote in the poll and I find your posting of this under religion and the fact that you made it a point in your OP and the poll to mention Judaism a little bit offensive, to be honest. 

    Let it go. I think it’s strange to be posting about something like this two weeks after your daughter’s wedding. It’s her sister-in-law and no relation to you. 

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