- 5 years ago
Hey bees! I can’t believe I’m finally posting but everyone in my life is so sick of hearing the same old same old I was curious to see what you girls think. Okay, so we have been together for three years and he is 25 I am 23. Oh and we live together, it has been a few months over a year now that we have lived together. I moved with him for his job straight across the country a year ago and two months ago from IL to WA and we know no one out here. He says he wants to wait to even get engaged until after his brother’s wedding. I am just more than ready to get engaged yesterday and I really was kind of hoping it was going to happen soon and then I read some of the boards and a lot of girls are saying their engagement was put off by SO until after their SO’s brother’s wedding. I just think it’s so annoying that guys would think this way! Shouldn’t it only be girls worried about stealing their sister’s thunder? Anyway, I really would never want to steal their moment i am just ready to be engaged. I wouldn’t even think of marrying until a year or two after their wedding which is a year from now.
What do you girls think? I know one thing for sure, he wants the engagement to be a total suprise and when he starts talking he stops himself saying “i could say things to make you feel 100% sure of everything but all i can say now is i want you to be my wife one day but i dont want to ruin any suprises.” Okay so is the timeline after bro’s wedding just to throw me off maybe? Did any bees have a similar situation and got engaged before their SO’s brothers wedding? Or am i just a hopeful waiting bee who doesn’t want to take at face value the statement “lets wait until after my brothers wedding” lol. Thanks for reading this long post ladies, and best to all of you waiting and not! 🙂